Hi Paula, well I am happy that the evening was not too akward for you as I know you were a bit nervous, it truely is awful what happened to your friend and I often wonder what nature is playing at, as you said people who should have been sterilised at birth have numerous children that they can't look after, and the ones that would make fantastic mothers suffer blows like this, where is the justice in that..... but I do agree with Lors, everything happens for a reason and it is out of our control...

Did she have to have a full hystorectomy or have they left her Ovaries in, at least if they did she can use her own eggs, if she considered using a womb doner, but as you said all too raw at the moment, things will work themselves out in time.

Take care, and try not to worry too much for her.

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