I used to think it was really important in past relationships as i thought if i didnt put out they would leave me, but now i have met lee who loves me just the way i am i have realised that its not THE most important thing.

We both go through phases where we dont want sex for months and its not an issue, it used to really really worry me and upset me but then i think that cuddling, kissing, holding hands..... are just as important now.

I think that its important but not as important as trust, laughter and companionship.

Hope all that made sense?!

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