this has happened to me twice now with 2 lads at work, same situation both times, we were really, really good mates as i had to work along side of them for 40hrs a week and then on works do's they've had a skinful and revealed how they felt

it really spoilt things, it made me feel so awkward like i had to keep checking everything i was saying so they wouldn't get the wrong impression

we did try to stay friends but it wasn't the same after that :sad:
incidentally, i'm talking over a 7 year period with both incidents (about 4 yrs between each) incase anyone's getting the wrong impression of me :???: