Give careful consideration to DEATH's answer.
National days or holidays can distract from your personal joy. You can be together or with friends if you wish rather than comply with traditional gatherings.
Gwen and I just exchanged vows on the day of our house warming. In working clothes and with my family we were happier than if we might have had a full wedding in the High Church of St, Giles in Edinburgh.
Best wishes for whatever you choose.
Rose P.