old baby. Please help me!!? I have a healthy baby, but breastfeeding has been extremely painful, coz of a chronic back condition, which I've had since years. Any stress makes me have severe pain and a huge swelling, with high fever. I know breastmilk is good, but I'm going crazy with stress. Am scared I'll become a nervous wreck. I keep crying the whole day. I want to stop breastfeeding him and want to wean him. PLEASE PLEASE dont jugge me. Please advice me on how to do it.... PLEASE HELP ME.....