My bf of almost 9 months and I were chatting today. I was a bit annoyed because it seems like i havent really put boundaries as to how much is ok to tease (we like to banter here and there...but lately its getting to me).
In any case, I started saying something about how sweet and caring I am (playfully) and then i asked him if he was sweet and caring.
He said no, he didnt think so.

I asked him why and he said he didnt know...mind you i had started playfully but he seemed to have taken it seriously.
I said i thought he was sweet, but caring, only he would know. He asked me how and I said that i hope he knew whether he cared or not.
He said he "guessed" he did
I said you cant guess those things and he replied with "not a good time babe..." (he is at work)

What would you guys make of this??? does that mean he isnt sure whether he cares or not??? im so confused!