as I stated before that I may be entering a "sort of verbally abusive" situation.....on sunday just to sum up....he was angry that I didn't cook breakfast right away and snapped at me passive agressively.....

I told him we didn't go food shopping....but he said he would go buy breakfast ..with an attitude....when he returned apparently he had been trying to call me but i left my cell phone in my purse ...and it was on vibrate...due to all the meetings I am always in at work....i forgot to change the ringer......he ofcourse came storming in and yelled at me requesting to see my phone.....he then accused me of being sneaky and humiliated me in front of his son...he yelled and angrily said he would not take my @@**!!!...i Ican't begin to tell you how upset i was..and i feel really lost and don't know what to do....i talked to my mom being that she lives below me about it ...as she saw in my eyes that i was crying.....of course her reponse is....think hard about marrying him..a part of me just wanted her to tell me ...break up with him...but my mom unfortunately is old school..and she also grew up in an unhealthy way of dealing with abuse...so she thinks all men are this way......i know i am educated but why do i feel confused about what to do....shouldn't this be action enough to break up with him? I am scared of him..and I am sad that I am ....i can't believe I am in this situation...please someone give me your thoughts......