Im 16, my boyfriend is 15. I know that he likes to jack off to porn even though we do have sex. it makes me really angry and i want him to stop. i cant stand the though of him looking at those women. yes i am jealous, but i also have a moral problem with it. not that hes objectifying women or whatever, they are objectifying themselves. what bothers me is that he enjoys seeing these obviously dirty/vulgar/wrong happenings. how can that be sexy to him? i just dont see why this is necessary, arent i good enough for him? ive brought it up to him a few times and he doesnt take me seriously at all. he says im just jealous and that it doesnt mean he doesnt love me. he says its what he does when im not there to satisfy him. he also said that he and his computer "go way back" i just get really angry when i think about it and i dont know what to do! its tearing me apart. i feel like him looking at porn is the same as cheating on me. i know its not the same but it feels the same. am i being ridiculous? what should i do? will he ever change?