after a million weird dreams i decided to look it up in my book "what to expect when expecting" this is what i found...i think #2 applies to you.. Keep in mind ive had dreams about all of these things... 1.If you dream of violence against you or your spouse, it means you are afraid that you won’t be able to protect your baby from something. 2.If you dream that your baby is born with abnormalities or there are ailments before birth, it means that you are worried about his or her health. (which is totally normal!! we all worry)3.If you dream about having a certain sex then it means you subconsciously want that sex.4.If you dream you neglect your child, or not being able to do something normal parents can do, it means you are worried about not being a good mother. 5. If you dream of a relative that has passed, it means you are trying to link old generations with new ones.