Hi

Oh my god where do I begin??? Last night my fella was talking to his mum and she got all serious and asking him a question. The question was "would you look after your sisters baby indefinatley?" He was bit shocked as its such a random question isnt it. Anyway, he said the answer is more than likely no, but he'd ask me.

It turns out that his sister has told his mother that shes not ready to be a mother, she had the baby when she was 16 and now the baby turns one on 22nd feb. The thing that scres me the most is that shes deadly serious about not wanting the baby. His mum has been looking after it the majority of the time, so much so that the baby wont eat its food from its real mother, and crys for my fellas mum not his sister. His mum and dad pay for everything.

I've said I don't want the baby - why should I look after someone elses baby just because she doesn't want it? His mother should make her see her responsibilities, theres younger mothers that just get on with being a mother, she thought it was a good thing going out and getting herself knocked up, obviously the reality has hit home. I know he'll get a gobful of whys and why nots from his mum when he calls her tonight, but you cant just give a baby away like that!

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