maybe if you felt up to it you could offer to have her on the odd saturday / sunday ? it's taking on something though, you might find if you did that it'd eventually be more and more then the odd night or two.
it's a hard one isn't it.
are you going to go then in 2 weeks ?
blokes just can't seem to say no to their mums ! my mil called yesterday to invite us for dinner and jeff couldn't just say, 'no actually, we're knackered with the baby being not well', he had to wait for me to ring her back and tell her why we wouldn't be going. such wimps at times !
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