i agree Lors you shouldnt feel guilty at the end of the day if your fellas mum hadnt "taken over the show" this probably wouldnt be happening right now.When i had my first my mum butted in and it made my fella feel left out so was harder for him when my mum was told by me to butt out.Maybe your fellas mum has realised that its not as easy as she first thought so doesnt want the responsibility im afraid they both have made there beds now they must lie in them well thats what i think.

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you're despicable!!!