tests? My boyfriend and I have been trying for three years. We have sex alot but then stress keeps us from that once in a while. He works 5 days a week and I work four a week. He has one testicle and i have already had one pregnacyfrom a previous relationship. I don't know if there is anything wrong with me of him physically cause we are trying to do this casually but i am getting impatient and disapointed every month. We have very little money to spare. Please helpMy daughter is the joy of my life and my boyfreind is daddy to her. We love each other and want another baby cause of that. Yeah so what we aren't married...marriage isn't for everyone. I don't need a piece of paper telling me that we love each other. We want to expand out little family. I know that diapers are expensive and babies in general are but I want to give my daughter something I never had. A family that actually cares about each other enough to show it and not care who sees. I don't want a baby so that I can have it like a pet like one person replied...I want my family.

Lots of sex with a guy that has little swimmers.If you have very little money, why would you want a kid anyway. They are very expensive. Price diapers and formula, doctor bills shots ........ wait till u can afford it.

High sperm count is key. No offense but he prolly doesn't have it if he only has one testicle. I could get ya pregnant first try!!

You and your boyfriend have very little money to spare, yet want to have a kid?? Nice. In any event, stress alone could be the cause.

quit trying....just enjoy and have fun with each other. Nature will take its course. It seems that sometimes we try way to hard to make it happen and the stress might cause those develish little sperm to run and hide , instead of seek and explore.LOL Good Luck

Get to know your body and your cycle. I learned how to tell when I was ovulatiing because I had an increase in discharge and it was different than normal (sorry if TMi, but it was thinner, almost watery when ovulating). Get a calander that is devoted to your cycle. Chart your cycle for a few months and you can soon start to tell easier when it is written down in front of you. Good luck!

Ok...so this is probably going to sound a bit old-fashioned. But, if you have very little money and aren't married - why do you want to have a kid????? You already have one kid whose father is not raising him. Now you want another? If it's just that you want something to cuddle....adopt a kitten. What makes you think that if you can't afford an ovulation test....you can afford to raise a child? And what happens if your boyfriend finds a different girlfriend? As for help getting pregnant.....maybe you could invite the high school football team over.

It sounds like you are stressed out. Your body won't give you a baby if you don't have the nutrition to support one. Trying and failing to conceive can contribute to that. Don't try too hard, and love yourself. Make sure you are eating right, exercising, and not getting too stressed.Ask your boyfriend to get a sperm count. As far as medical expenses go, it is cheap.

There are several things you can try that has worked for me. First of all you need to find something to take away your stress even if is a small walk or just a simple bubble bath. Wait two to three days before you have sex, that will create a sperm build up and you both will enjoy it more also. Take your temperature every day when you first wake up and record it, the day your ovulating your temperature will be higher than normal. Try to have sex when your about to finish your menstrual cycle some people ovulate then. Don't have sex every day after that, wait two or three days and try again. Sperm live up to 3days so don't think his going to miss the egg. good luck!