i need advice, about a month ago, on thanksgiving nite, i had intercourse, but he withdrew before ejaculating. i was supposed to start my period around the 3rd of december and never got it, buti did discharge a little bitt on the 8th through the 11th. Im afraid this is a sign that im pregnant. I also stopped using the pill around march, so could it also be that im going back to having irregular periods. Im also type II diabetic. If anyone has any advice for me please let me know, thank you!!

im in the same boat so maybe we can help each other

yes , i sure do hope we can help eachother, its a scary situation in my situation!!

im wondering if i should take a pregnancy test.

yes it is im not sure about me if i am are not it kind of confusing do u have n e tips for me???

i would take one and see! it wont hurt

sometimes ur body plays games with u so it could be that to was the guy u were with have a condom on or not?

no he didnt have one on. How long ago did you have intercourse and when was your last period or next one due. First , i think we both have to calm down and not jump to conclusions, it will drive us crazy!!1

that is truw about that! umm the last time i had intercourse was just the other day but like 3 weeks ago my breast started to hurt and i started feeling bloated and im not supossed to start my period til the end of this month and today i started spotting so im confused ive also been feeling sick here lately and very sleepy

i would definitely take a pregnancy test, or go to your doctor, those do sound like typical first trimester symptoms, but like you said could be some other factors as well, but i would definitely get a test. I will if you will