Well ill try to make this as shorta as i can...this boy and i were dating for 7 months and it was amazing...we both fell for each other and it was perfect. Wed hang out every chance we could get! We still had time alone though wen we needed it. it was perfect. i swear if there is a heaven, thaty was it. sure, we arcued, but everyone does right. we always worked it out though and not for one second would i ever think of ending. so we were going through sorta a rough patch, lots of arguing and many disagreements....but eventually everything went back up hill. he even said it was! then about a week or two after that point we didnt hang out for like 4 days cuz we bth got sick and bla bla bla....so we finally could hang out! i wasnt doin very well then...my life was hard cuz my friends were being dumb and my dad was and basically all i wanted was to my love who i hadnt seen in about 4/5 days...so wen we met at the park, i said wow i never wanna stay away that long ever again! this was sumthin hed usually say to me and visa versa so it was nothin new...so...i waited for his reply ...nothin...and i said whats wrong? and hes like its not my fault ur so possessive...I WAS SHOCKED.ill admit i was upset wen he couldnt hang out ealier that week(cuz i really needed him there 4 me) but i didnt give him a hard time about it! So right there i totally broke down...i started like crying my eyes out(very unlike me) all i had wanted was for him to just be there 4 me like he always was...then he held me and said he was sorry...later ....i was still sad and i asked him to come talk to me at my house...so he did and i told him y i over re-actded wen he said that...cuz my life was really hard and all. he said he was sorry and shouldnt have said that. he knew it was wrong and he didnt know why he said that and bla bla bla bla...so we worked it all out....we sorta....The next day i asked him over to the park as usual and wen he got there i said to be prepared to talk cuz i have a lot to say(i was still upset about some other things from awhile ago that we hadnt worked out) i thought ok he should be fine listenin to me and workin it out like we usually do. then he was silent and im like is that ok? and he said i guess ...im just scared cuz i dnt know what i did wrong...it was weird, sumthin he wouldnt generally say...so i told him all that stuff and we really never worked it out and that day started bad and was still getting worse! he like contridicted him self a lot and i could tell that he wasnt agrweing with me...ANYWAYS! i ended up askin him do u even care about me(it sorta just came out from nowhere, cuz i had gotten the feeling he didnt ) there was this HUGE AKWARD SILENCE....and thn he said, i do, just not as much as i used to....WOW I WAS STUNNED.I asked him y the rest of the day and he said he just couldnt anser it...then i said that he should just leave cuz he needed to think...so hes like ok yea i do need to..then as he hugged me goodbye, i started crying so hard...so hard..out of know where...he saw me and stayed a minute longer to just hold me...then i said no just go u need to think...so he kissed me and left...the next day over the phone, he said he wanted to just be friends.....it hurt so bad....he said hed still be there for me but wenever we made plans it never worked out on his side, or he had sumthin else to do...so i talked to him about it and he was all mad and hes like oh im just busy and all tis stuff. he sounded so depressed...and really stressed...so since then he hasne answered my email or called me ...nothin...its been like 2 months now....i love him. we were in love and i know it. it happened so fast that i seriously didnt see it comming. i die more and more inside everyday cuz hes all i want, id die for this boy, id do anything...and hes sooo stubborn too so really its hard to try talk to him i mean it would be...he did it at the beginning of this summer and i cry everyday...trust me ive put all his stuff in the back of my closet i havent called him...ive been hagin with friends, meetin new people...its not workin, i miss him even more. the thought of me being with another guy...makes me sick...hes all i want...hes everything...i cant beleive he just gave up like that.....omg ...i love him.....i just want him .......i think he was confused...about wat...i have NO idea...everything was fine...he even said it wasnt me ...im so lost.....

Well...That was a lot to read, but that's okay. I like to read, especially if I can offer a helping hand. Let's see...To put it short, you love him, he doesn't want to be with you and it hurts you all the time not to have him. I am going to tell you that if he won't talk, he's being immature and in my opinion, not accepting his problems. That's not a trait I'd want in a man if I was a girl, a man unable to deal with his problems. Anyways. All of that aside, I think you can do one of two things. The first is do your very best to move on and just try and date someone else. It might be hard, but you need to get it into your head that he probably won't come back and moving on is the best move. Survival of the fittest, you need to addapt. The second thing you can do is continue writing to him and calling him trying to talk to him. Don't seem obsessive, but let him know that you want to get some things off your chest and you want to talk to him as friends. Don't seem possessive, obsessive or any of that and you might be able to get your feelings out to him.