this is my first time on this site - I had been dating a guy since last May and we got on great, was so comfortable with him, enjoyed his company we had a lot of the interests and had a great sex life, we went to a few weddings together and we just always had a great time. In November we went to London for a weekend, wasn't a great weekend don't really know what happened we just didn't communicate very well that weekend and then we had a chat the following weekend and decided that we would communicate more and do stuff together. I asked him to stay that night but he went home, got a text message about 10 minutes after that saying maybe he should have stayed as one thing he is not confused about is the great sex we have and enjoy. Everything was back to the way it was we don't see each other every day but we'd text and speak and then Christmas came and things were good he told me to worry so much and to think so much as I when I am alone I do think too much. Then on new years we broke up and was devastated two days later he told me that he missed me and realised the consequence of his actions so i said could we not give it the chance and communicate more as we hadn't in the last few weeks I guess with the run up to the holidays and going out etc. but he said no that we would just start to aggrivate each other. He has moved away for work and not far about 2 hours drive and I was looking forward to going to visit him for a change and doing stuff in the new city. I then had to put pen to paper and get everything off my chest and we were texting last weekend and I said it was hard as I was use to seeing him 3 to 4 times a week and now nothing. I missed a call from him the other night and then I texted him the following night and texts have been just normal like I would with a friend and he texted me nite and I said Ok and then he said have happy dreams. Last night he moved into a new apartment and I texted to say I hope it was Ok that I texted and that he settles in OK and he said he didn't mind and that he was just in the supermarket getting stuff and was going to go and get his room ready. A few hours later I just texted to say hope you got the cornflakes and then he texted a while later saying sorry just being really busy this evening. I know I probably shouldn't text him at all but its just that in the 8 months we were together we saw each other about 3/4 times a week and its just hard to cut all contact with him. We live in a small town where we will see each other and I guess deep down I am wondering does he still miss me.

No offense but if a girl ever texted me.

"Hope you got the cornflakes."

I would be kind of weirded out. It not only shows that you're being friendly, but reminds me alot of my mom.

You should tone down on the texting, and if you're gonna text be playful/silly.

I mean regular communication is fine, but why text? Why don't you call? And you don't have to cut all contact, but it seems like you're coming as clingy/needy ever since he moved out. You need to reassess yourself, and let him communicate to you first. It seems like the relationship is going into the relaxed mode, and you don't want that.

Maybe he does miss you, and maybe he does think about you, but it seems like he's trying to just live his life.

Have you two talked about moving in together..?

Oh the cornflake text was because before he started to stay over at my house I never got cornflakes so only started to buy them when he came on the scene as he liked them for his breakfast - I know sounds weird in a text. I have thought about calling him insteading of texting as besides missing his voice I think it would be better to talk.

Ah I see =]

Well it just sounded very weird when you put it there.

As for the texting, I honestly really don't feel like texting is good. Convenient, yes, but when communicating it is just simply boring.

Just call him like a few days later, but don't smother him with texts, and give him space.

You're both getting into the relaxed relationship stage, so don't take it as he doesn't want to spend time with you.

Calling is really best than texting...
I personally advised it too.. you're not seeing each other so calling is the best thing to do.. and do a little naughtiness in your phonecalls.

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