I know it sounds stupid cuz its MY wedding but I dont want there to be tension. I used to work with this doctor from December 2005 to Juned 2006 and him and I did not get along. He is very arrogant but plays a very good part in front of others. In June of 2006 I was transferred to a different location to help out with the staff there but now I have been transferred back to my old location to run the show. I want to invite my coworkers cuz they are good people and I really like them. I just dont' want to invite the doctor. I just feel that he isn't the caliber of person I want around. Any suggestions?

You don't have to invite anyone you don't want there.

However you know about office politics....and to keep the peace it maybe better just to invite him.

You'll be so busy you won't know he's there anyway.

Keep it real. Just tell him if he asks that you just don't like his personality. HE SEEMS TO BE USED TO BEING PHONEY, DON'T PLAY HIS GAME, IT'S YOUR WEDDING. IF ANYONE ELSE ASKS, JUST KEEP IT REAL. YOU'LL HAVE LESS ULCERS FROM IT. ANOTHER REASON NOT TO SEE HIM!.