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A teacher this year, that taught me in a subject that wasn't my strongest, so I'd always coming for extra help after school, and naturally we got to know each other, but as the year came to an end, I started to realize that he was treating me different, I started to realize that sometimes he would flirt with me, but he really never did anything that made me feel weird or uncomfortable but after awhile, he started doing things, like making fun of little things I would do in class, or he would say, "I love you, I just want you to know that.", or you will always have a special place in my heart. and when he saw me before graduation, he told me I looked beautiful, and said that this year has been a year he won't forget, because he feels that he has become a better person, teacher, everything because I opened his eyes to giving people an opportunity to succeed.The year was full of moments like that.
Now, I am starting to question how I feel about him, It's like he slowly seduced me all year? I just don't know if these "feelings" between us are real? I graduated so I am no longer a student at school and I just don't know why all of a sudden, I find myself feeling this way. Its like as long as I was a student at the same school that he was my teacher I would never have even looked at him like that, but now, Its like things have changed, and I don't know what to think about the situation. He never bluntly asked me out or anything, but he did say at the end of the year that he did like me, and he hoped that any guy who dates me realizes how lucky they are. I will be 19 next February, and he will be 25 this August. I know all of this must sound pretty stupid, but I just wanted to see what others thought, because sometimes people get caught up and don't see things clearly, and I am starting to wonder if this is just my mind playing tricks on me, or if maybe something is there. I do know that teacher/Student relationships are usually frowned upon, so thats why I felt so unclear as to what I should do next. Do I test the waters with him, or just forget him all together? Its sort of like, my heart tells me one thing, but the reality of the way people think makes me feel like I have to think otherwise. |
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Hi I don’t have so much idea regarding this subject. Just I suggest you to take steps accordingly. |
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he wants you bad. naturally he would never do anything while you are a student, although he may have wanted to...
if you feel the same way? why not? you're not a student anymore... if you are worried what people will say, just be discreet when you see him at first |
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::UPDATE:: Well, I actually ran into my teacher today, while I was at my school picking something up, and we talked for alittle bit, just about like the summer and school starting and stuff... and then he told me, "hey..before you leave, you should check out my office..you haven't been up there yet." So, He went to class and I went up to see what he was talking about, and he had this little sign thing ( that I started as a joke with acouple of other teachers as well), and its just this lil paper sign that will say like...WHAT, or Confused, or HuH? and I like hold them up during classes...its really more of an inside joke with the ppl at my school, but it saved me from having to raise my hand or call out every 5 min. when I was in a class that I never understood anything..lol..and alot of other ppl started doing it too..but Its all out of fun...and he had the sign that I had for his class framed, and then he had this pic. of us that I gave him at the end of the year, framed too. Like I said, the sigh..I could see framed..cause most of the other teachers who I have done this with..framed thier's too...haha..but the picture kinda shocked me...I was like...huh? I mean, I gave any teacher that I had taken a photo with a copy of the pic. and some of them tacked it on the wall, or just have it like leaning on something in thier office, or some just took it home, but I was surprised that he framed it...I was like..wow..really was not expecting that. Should I just take that as a compliment, that he doesn't want the pic getting messed up, or take that as something...weird??? Its like the only two tihngs he has up too..like he doesnt have any other things up in his office yet. Part of me says, wow, thats nice of him, and then the other part is like...alittle strange.
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Having a relationship to a grown up man is a lot more easier to deal with.
If your going to have a relationship to him, I think you'll be happy bec. its nice when the man is deeply in love with you. Relationships do not imply whether you are like this and that, love comes in a mysterious ways. |
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What people dont really realize, is that we couldn't stand eachother for awhile..I mean..he delt with me becasue I was in his class and I delt with him cause he was my teacher but we bumped heads about everything at first and then I guess you can say I grew up alittle..and we both made lots of changes and well...we just grew on eachother. I guess you can say, we forced eachother to change, and lucky for both of us..they were changes for the better and I like to think we are better people because of some of the things we went through. |
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sorry i dont have much information about it but i will try and than give some information about it... THanks..
RelationshipAtoZ |
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I guess, word got out that I had done well on this college math exam, and everyone was talking about it, and they kept asking me if I had told my teacher about all of this. Everyone was like..Oh my god, he is not going to believe how well your doing, you have to tell him about this, yourself..everyone was like, we wont say anything, you tell him, personally. I had this teacher for math last year, so that was why everyone wanted me to fill him in. Turns out the afternoon that I came by, he had left school early..so a teacher who he shares an office with gave me his E-Mail and said, go ahead..just E-mail him the good news!!!
So I sent him an E-mail and just said..Hey, Your never going to believe what happened..and I told him about the test grade..and that I just can not believe that iam doing so well...and I guess all that hard work from last year is just paying off, because this semester so far, has been pretty good. Then he responded back like two days later, and he was like.." ohh iam sorry its taken me this long to respond. I missed you when you came to school the other day, becasuse I left early. Now, I wish I didnt do that, because I am sure you would have made me laugh, just the way your E-Mail did. ( I guess he found the part, where I said...I was FREAKING OUT when I got my test back..and the teacher like asked me if I needed some air...lol...I dont get A's in MATH ever, so I was really..freaking out! ^_^, I guess he found that funny) He was like..I heard about your score from a lot of people actually. It just goes to show you what can happen when you work hard at something, you can really do well when you put your mind to it. I am so proud of you, and not just academically, that your doing well in school...but I am really proud of the woman your becoming. I just want you to always remember that anything done with determination and hard work can be achievied, and that Anything is possible. Every time I look at the photo of you and I, here in the office...it just makes me smile". So, what do you guys think of this?? Should I respond back to him or just let it be and see how things are whenever we run into eachother again? |
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Thanks! =) Well, we are already not in the same school. He teaches in the school that I graduated from this past year. I only go back for alumni events, and games and stuff like that. |
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