Why are all men w^£*ers?
Just when you think they cant possibly hurt you any more they still find a way to

Ok the story is
Just before I found out I was pregnant I met a really really nice lad, only problem was he lives in Bristol. Anyway we were seeing each other everyweek untill I had matthew then it droped to once a month
He recently moved to Weston Super Mare and we have sort of lost touch.

I really really fell for him and love him to bits but all he kept doing was messing me about
I day he said he loved me but the next day he said he didnt know if he ment it

Today I get a phone call from him saying he is gonna be a dad

While I'm happy for him it has absolutly desvestated me, i'm really really hurt

:cry:

how can i get over this ?
Advice needed please

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I dont think anyone can tell you how to get over it as everyone is different? some people can just get over things like that quite easily (me for one, so far) and some ,well, i dont know? To be honest ive never really loved anyone that much to give a t**s if they stayed around or not!
sorry i cant be of more help :sad: but i hope you can get over it soon :grin:

hi

i arent sure on this one either.

I guess you should be happy for the fact that he called to tell you. hes obviously very happy about the new baby and wants everyone he can think of to know.

Over time youll foget about him, especially when you meet someone else, just like her has, and youll move on and wonder why you ever got so caught up in it all.

Oh poor u, i think he was a b******s to even tell u tbh. All i can say is that i remember my first lover (not love) finished with me and i thot my world had ended cos i really thot i loved him. My world crashed around me, but on hindsight i no it was for a reason and im always saying this but to date anything crap has happened to me has had a reason wich i never saw at the tym. Wat doesnt break us makes us stronger. I hope ur feeling better prob ur not just yet but u will in tym. Cut contact if it makes u feel better tell him not to contact u. Hope ur ok xxx

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i agree with Lors maybe he still wants to be friends with you as he called to tell you about how he is going to ve a dad

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i am a true believer that you never know whats around the corner. i would not waste another second crying over him. the sad truth is he has moved one so whilst he is off playing happy families he has been insensitive to your feelings. he should have been more clearer with you from the start. but you may salvage friendship out of this once you have stopped hurting. as its clear he still views you as a friend.
i remember what i thought at the time was my true love he turned out to be a bottom lol . was not till my heart had healed that i seen him for what he was. i did not think at the time i would ever stop crying.
my advise don't waste anymore time crying over him hun xx

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