Hello,
I don't know if I am able to tolerate the pain when giving birth. This is my very first child. Is an epidural as safe as they say in some of the baby books?

Mrs. Robinson

I've had two epidurals. I couldn't walk for about three hours with the first one but I was up almost immediately after the second one. I delivered the baby, held him for a short while I had a little rest then I got up and took a shower. Maybe it depends on the anaesthesiologist?

Barb

Epidurals are very safe. If certain basic precautions are taken, it is a very safe anaesthetic technique. Serious complications are very rare.

Juliasmom

My epidural was like heaven sent. I am so glad I got it when my son was born. I could have not lasted without. From what my OB told me the epidurals are very safe. He was very confident and recommended it. I felt in good hands and had no reason to question his judgement.

An excellent source for learning about the different options is a book called "Gentle Birth Choices" it tells you all the info you need to pick your method and make your birth plan. The newest edition also comes with a great DVD that is really encouraging and inspiring. I have a copy and found it really helpful in feeling mentally prepared and less frightened about the pain.