gifts? Birth of their bastards? It seems to be the 21st century thing to do-not marry even as an atheist. Everyone seems to ignore the fact that it is sin against nature if nothing else. and the old fashioned word for a child brought into that situation is a bastard. Do friends and especially relatives ignore all that and give gifts as if it were all legitimate?

it's not the child's fault,I hope they don't ask you to babysit..you'd beat the hell out of it...like they should beat the hell out of you!!!
GET LOST YOU Bitter B*TCH...