got it from other place but as we have a special needs child - it is so truth!!!
I was mouching around the boards today and came across this,... just had to post it here...

Story for peeps with children with special needs.

When you are going to have a baby, it's like planning a vacation to Italy. You're excited. You get a bunch of guidebooks, you learn a few phrases so you can get around, and then it comes time to pack your bags and head for the airport.

Only when you land, the stewardess says, "Welcome to Holland."

You look at one another in disbelief and shock, saying, "Holland? What are you talking about? I signed up for Italy."

"But," they explain, "there's been a change of plans. You've landed in Holland, and there you must stay."

"But, I don't know anything about Holland!" you say. "I don't want to stay!"

But stay you do. You go out and buy some new guidebooks, you learn some new phrases and you meet people you never knew existed. The important thing is that you are not in a slum full of pestilence and famine. You're simply in a different place than you had planned. It's slower paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy, but after you've been here a little while and you have a chance to catch your breath, you begin to discover that Holland has windmills. Holland has tulips. Holland has Rembrandts.

But everyone else you know is busy coming and going from Italy. They're all bragging about what a great time they had there, and for the rest of your life, you'll say, "Yes, that's what I had planned."

The pain of that will never go away. You have to accept that pain because the loss of that dream, the loss of that plan, is a very, very significant loss. But if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't go to Italy, you will never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things about Holland.

when i did my course on autism they gave us this to read before we started i think its really touching

Thats good that, thank you

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