I have lost a baby so I very much doubt I would have an abortion UNLESS I had been raped, but who knows how I would feel it wouldnt be just me to consider it would be my partner, my daughter and family.
COULD I bring another mans baby up and could my partner I just dont know.

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It is a debate, at the end of the day people should't get upset nothing is aimed at others directly, no body on here is intending that i'm sure ,they're just giving their own opinions

Personally i think it depends on the person and their circumstances, that is the most i can say on it as i have not been in that situation.

I have had an abortion as i was raped and i dont regret it ever!

I think abortion is up to the individual and the circumstances.

I work in a childrens residential unit and as harsh as it sounds some of the children i work with would prehaps be better off not being born as its is obvious what sort of a future they will have.

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i think its down to each and every individual what they want to do, the way i see it is that theres no point in bringing an unwanted baby into the world.

Adele, if you don't mind me asking, was it just your decision whether you kept the baby or not?

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It was just mine, i wasnt in a relationship and i didnt tell anyone what happened until years down the line.

There is no way i could have carried on with the pregnancy, it would have been a constant reminder!




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yeah i guess the child would bring it all back every time you saw it. Did you ever get justice? or didnt you involve the law? you don't have to tell me if you don't want to, as I know its quite personal.

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He was an ex boyfriend who i went out with on and off for a year, i really liked him and he was older than me, he wanted something more "relaxed". 6 months after we broke up for good i saw him in a pub on New Years Eve and he was drunk and wouldnt take "NO" for an answer. I didnt think anyone would believe me and i was too ashamed and had little self confidence as it was as he had always kocked it out of me (literally) when we were together.

I get angry now when i think back of what he did, i am stronger now than i was then but it is too late now for me to get my justice.

I am lucky as i getting married in October to a lovely, gentle protective man





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sorry to hear that adele I am glad you have found a guy who looks after you and i wish you all the best for the future x

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me too xxx