thought i would spice things up a bit with a few debates.

so abortion. your veiws?

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WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but that my opinion :?

yeh, i dont agree with it. but there was a time i thought i was pregnant and wanted so badly not to be. luckily nature took its cause and i wasnt. i dont think i woiuld have gone through with an abortion even then tho, i dunno.

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to be honest I think it is something you always have an opinion on but when it comes down to it i believe the situation can impact someones opinion. What I mean is you will never know until you are put in the position what your true opinion will be. Hope that makes sense.

yeh it does.

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well i know that i never could !!! because iv lost a few babies and when i eventually was pregnant i refused every test there was, because whatever they would have shown i still wouldnt have terminated so there was no point even testing for things wrong!! if you know what i mean :roll: but it has to be an individuals choice but i think if you can get yourself into a situation then you have to pay the consequences and it shouldnt just be so easy!!! theres hundreds of wonderful people out there who are desperate to have a family and for others its just far too easy to not have one :shock: :roll: oooops im on one now 8)

yeah i think there are a few situation when abortion is wrong but then there are others that are right.

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I agree Lee

:lol: off yer box lady ! :lol:

yeh, now that i have my boy, i feel so lucky! and there are hundreds of people who would do anything to have a kid, like you said. it seems unfair i suppose to get rid of a baby when loads of people would want one.

when i was younger and thought i was preggie, i was terrified. (mostly as it was due to a 1 night stand) but when i met my now hubby, i wasnt worried. i was in a secure relationship and knew i would be ok.

and i have always wanted kids, since i was a kid, so i kinda felt that i had the greatest gift ever. (thats really soppy isnt it :lol: )

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lol it is soppy but i know what you mean...when i had thomas i couldnt believed that id 'grown' him :lol: :lol: i kept saying to people 'I made him you know' when you look at them it all becomes so real. that little life inside is a person, right from the first second for me so for people to abort that little person just seems wrong to me and the time limits on it is all wrong :shock: