i wouldn`t even consider it, anyone who does has got to be seriously messed up. i have snogged someone while i`ve been out. but i was wrecked and it was my ex. who deep down i still have a bit of a thing for. but that was as far as it went.

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Well I wasn't messed up just very unhappy. Nothing ever happened between myself and mark sexually until I had split from my ex husband.
I guess it was an affair but not a full blown having sex with another man affair :shock:

I never thought I would EVER have feelings for another man and it scared me to death , but after 10 years of being with him we turned out to be like brother and sister, he was not prepaired to change his ways.

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I would like to think that I would never consider it and talk through my feelings with my husband.

I know what you mean about the brother and sister thing though Kim. I have been through that before and you end up staying in a relationship where you're just living there for the sake of it.

Nobody really knows how they would react in all honesty unless they were in the situation themselves and found themselves either falling for or sexually attracted to someone else.

I am shocked at my friend but my friendship with her is more valuable to me than condeming her for her actions!

BB x

I dont think you would fall for someone if you were happy with your partner, therefore knowing that your unhappy you should end the relationship before it gets to that stage.

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you`d never have an affair adele, your husband is perfect :lol:

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This is very true! After meeting a lots of toads i met my prince :grin:

x x x

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i feel like i`m putting up with a toad at the min. he`s getting on my nerves

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Ah bless :grin:

He's not a proper toad though is he?!

x x x

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I was born with a natural sense of paranoia, so I don't think I'd have the nerve to have an affair. I wouldn't stick around if I was unhappy, though.

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"May the terrapins of happiness nibble you 'til you're sure" - Gary Lightbody

i would never stray from gareth simply bein cuz i no wot hed do 2 both of us (the man i was with)

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