If a man loves his wife so much... why would they have an affair? I may be naive here but why risk what they have if they are that 'happy at home'?

I honestly havent a clue on this one im afriad BB.

I think maybe they get too comfortable at home? they, and i suppose it goes for women too, they always think someone else will be more fun, more exciting, but really its too late when they realise that home is best.

some people may just think the grass is always greener on the other side until they try it i suppose???

dont know really sorry :???:

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BB - is there anything I can help you with?

Hope youre ok???

i don't think they could be 100% happy with everything because you just wouldn't risk what you had. some men though just never change, i know my ex has cheated on pretty much every girl he's been out with, he just can't help himself :???: (it was quite reassuring for me when i found this out as i didn't feel as hurt)

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oh and he was an ugly git too, don't know how he did it ?

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Hi Lors,

No I am fine thanks... just asking the question!

I don't think that my husband would cheat on me. I used to be jealous quite a while ago but as far as I am concerned, if he cheated, I would be gutted but he has a lot to lose esp now we have Aaron.

BB x

I think its like Mandy say' s grass is greener on the other side. Or the other thing is that they have been togther so long and want to try something different

I honestly do not think humans were built and designed to be monogamous we are too intelligent and complex to ever be content with spending our lives with the same person, now Ok I am not saying that everyone is a cheat, but I think that everyone has the potential to be one, we have all looked a member of the opposite sex and thought about it to some extent, at the end of the day it all boils down to morals and will power. Just my thoughts on it. Both my husband and I cheated on each other (before we married) and even now I don't worry about it or not trust him, as anything could happen, he could meet someone tomorrow and fall madly in love with her and it would be out of my control, but I know that he is 100% happy with what he has right now. Hope that makes sense.

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I actually agree with you on that Lucy. :grin: