Would you tell a friend .... - Love & Relationship Forums

BigBump29 · #1 (**permalink**) 05-24-2006, 09:16 AM

you fancied them?

Years ago before I got married, a very good friend of mine told me he fancied me for years. I had known him since I was 18 and he said that he had always fancied me and was tempted to ask me out on a date but didn't want to spoil the friendship.

I was really surprised... not expecting it at all. We have stayed good friends and he and I have both married and it doesn't bother me when I see him.

Has it happened to any of you??

BB x

unknown65 · #2 (**permalink**) 05-24-2006, 10:16 AM

yes it did!

I was mates with a lad all the way through high school - got engaged to someone else and split - then we got together - it oly lasted 18 months and I've not spoken to him since!

big mistake for me but who knows -it could work for others

6cats · #3 (**permalink**) 05-24-2006, 10:20 AM

ive met up with an old friend and lads from school that told me that they used to fancy me, had a go with a couple of them but it didnt work out but we still speak like nothings happened which is good :grin:

mandy_lewis · #4 (**permalink**) 05-24-2006, 11:22 AM

never really happened to me so couldnt really comment on it :roll:

Unkown · #5 (**permalink**) 05-24-2006, 03:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 6cats

ive met up with an old friend and lads from school that told me that they used to fancy me, had a go with a couple of them but it didnt work out but we still speak like nothings happened which is good :grin:

:twisted: :lol: :lol:

naaah never happened to me!! noone could put up with me ;-)

Polly F · #6 (**permalink**) 05-25-2006, 05:36 AM

this has happened to me twice now with 2 lads at work, same situation both times, we were really, really good mates as i had to work along side of them for 40hrs a week and then on works do's they've had a skinful and revealed how they felt

it really spoilt things, it made me feel so awkward like i had to keep checking everything i was saying so they wouldn't get the wrong impression

we did try to stay friends but it wasn't the same after that :sad:

incidentally, i'm talking over a 7 year period with both incidents (about 4 yrs between each) incase anyone's getting the wrong impression of me :???:

6cats · #7 (**permalink**) 05-25-2006, 11:46 AM

paula you're just a tart admit it :lol: :lol:

and rae

certainly did have a go :lol:

imported_claire · #8 (**permalink**) 05-25-2006, 12:38 PM

It happened with me i got really friendly with a lad when i was 15 and went out with him we talked more before we went out and it only lasted about 1month if that !!

Polly F · #9 (**permalink**) 05-26-2006, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by 6cats

paula you're just a tart admit it :lol: :lol: :lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol: he, he, he

smokyeyeshadow · #10 (**permalink**) 07-02-2006, 01:24 PM

I wouldn't want to in case it ruined the friendship which I owuld hate to do.

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