you'll never know till you try it, in which case its too late to change your mind pmsl, only very rarely do you find mums who don't take to it, its hard, but so enjoyable. Having said that, its not for everyone, & if you really don't want kids, don't be pressured into having them.

i think it creeps up on you and then you become obsessed by babies :lol: i was mid twenties but as joanne says i was terrified when it actually happened after being desperate for it to :lol: all i could think was what if i cant do it? but it all comes naturally ;-)

I'll have to see if it creeps up on me :grin:

I'll keep hold of my baby name list just incase!

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once you decide you want one i dont think you care about spending money on yourself anymore :lol: its great to buy things for your baby ;-)

I cant ever imagine me feeling like that! :lol:

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believe me neither could i :lol:

How many children do you have?

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i have 2 boys, 11 and 8 :grin: andnowmy sis has a little girl who i adore so i spend any money i dont spend on the boys on her :lol:

Thats lovely, did you ever want a baby girl?

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no never :lol: i always thought i would have 3 boys but i have lost 4 babies and am happy now with my 2 but i hoped all the way through my sisters pregnancy it was a pink one ;-)