...making a fool of myself.? First of all I am a bit shy. This guy is a bit older than me, I don't see a problem with the age difference, but i've heard someone dub him the Perpetual Bachelor. i don't think a 29yr old is old enough to take that title. I went out with a bunch of friends and he was in the same party, and i sat near him and joined in the conversations. I'm only going to see him a few more times before the the group we are in stops meeting. i think i have become intimidated now that i know he's 7 yrs older than me. He's the talkative, yet down to earth, life of the party, and i'm the quiet girl. I open up in smaller groups. I would really like to get to know him better, but i'm not the only one in the large group of us who would. Grace me with your experiences.

go on just ask me,i,ll definately say yes.

What's this, War and Peace? He may be in danger of being bored to death with too much rabbit.

I would say that you should most likely have a little boost of confidence. Does he notice you? Have you started giving him "hints"? If so, your on the right track. But you should look at his past relationships, if they are long or not and try to find out what he likes and doesn't like. I think that this should get you started. Oh, and also if you can see this relationship continueing after the meetings.

YOUR NAME IS MADDIE TOO !! get in there before anyone else does just ask him if he fancies going for a spot of lunch next time your talking to him !! remember if your not fast your last you dont get far being shy !!