Both men and women cause problems. i just want to know why women think they are always going to get hurt in the relationship. i don't want no bs answers. if any answers are callus and rude, i'll report

Most girls think this way because it's either they've been hurt or traumatized before or was cheated in the past relationships. Girls who were cheated in the past have hard time gaining the trust anymore. It's a girl thing - we are too emotional and usually hard to forget bad experiences from past relationships.
We are just trying to be cautious.

because when we deal with men like you not that i am implying at all that you are not a honest and loving type of fellow in your realtionship but usually its the guy that always cause the problems