I wont go into too much detail as its a long story but do you thinkits a bit off when my partner is getting text messages from a girl he works with and speaking to him via msn and putting lots of xxxxxx's at the end of a conversation or text???


She is a 19 girl fron his work place who he sits next too and is going through men like hot dinner's, she has confessed that she has a STD and has just split up from a married man as he would not leave his wife for her.

She text him the other night saying she was going on a date and what should she do if the bloke was to kiss her!!! mark replied in a joking manner, so she text back asking what she should wear :shock: I went mad by this time asking WTF was this all about.
I have to confess I am a very jealous person :twisted: I know he would never do anything with this girl BUT she is really pissing me off and I think she knows this, and is she trying it on with him??? Or am I being stupid?

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i`dont`think`you`are`being`stupid!!!!
whether`or`not`theres`anything`going`on`...regardl ess`of that`it`isnt`a`way`for`a`bloke`whos`getting`marrie d`to`carry`on
and`also`mark`must`be aware`that`you`arent`happy!`so`he`should`stop`it`n ow!
how`would`he`feel`if`you`were`getting lots`of`text messages`with`kisses`at`the`end?

Yes thats what I thought, the problem with mark is that he is just so laid back and I dont think it would bother him If I was having these kind of messages.

I would love to know how this girl would feel if I was having conversations with a boyfriend of hers.

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Kim you have evey right to be pissed off I have something similar this girl textes Paul all the time but they have never meet they where meant to go on a blind date but it fell through then me and him got together and she knows about me but still texts everyday and it's really getting to me but paul seems like mark so laid back and can't see anything wrong with it.

Hi chopper dunno if u rem bak id a similar prob only with one of my hubbys exes who doesnt live here but it still drove me mad. Its not on for people to do things like that and im sure he wouldnt like it if u did. At the tym i went mad and told him he wasnt to send kisses again or reply to stupid txts like i dreamt of u last nite. So he stoped encouraging her and she stoped annoying him, end of story. She txts now once a month to say hi and nothing else and def no kisses. Get one of ur mates to send ones to u but change their name to a man and c wat happens lol

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LIZZIE XXXXX

He has told me not to worry about her and that she is just a work mate, I should add that he never sends any messages back to her that would cause me worry its just what she sends him :evil: with all the xxxx at the end arrrrrrr.

Im going to marks xmas party in dec and she will be there but whats even better is the wife of the man she was having an affair with will be there.

The wife knows all about the affair and has told her husband to keep this girl away mmmm should be an exciting evening.

Lizzie, I think I can honestly say that if a man was to text me then mark wouldnt batt an eyelid he is so relaxed about this kind of thing :-|

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Oh well thats not much good then, so just go to the party looking like a million dollars and spend all nite wrapped round ur hubby at least that way shell she ur well luved up and maybe shell leave u alone

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LIZZIE XXXXX

Im going to get some false nails put on nearer the time, maybe I can scratch out her eyes then :lol:

Well at least now I know its not jut me overreacting and being green eyed and silly :grin:

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Yeah show him the thread thats wat i did then he saw it wasnt just cos i was jealous which i really am by the way but still, its nice to have someone elses opinion on it cos men have a way of making u think ur neurotic or pmting or something :lol:

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LIZZIE XXXXX

Yes he said I was over reacting and had nothing to worry about, of course I cried last night as its been geting me down but he comforted e and made me feel worse as then I thought blimey I must be loosing the plot and Im just being neurotic :shock:

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