I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this problem. Hopefully you have found some resolution in the time you originally posted this. If not you may want to have a family meeting including all those that are affected by your mothers tirades. I understand the dilemma of not wanting to talk to her about it seeing as it might cause more troubles but I would consider the damage she is also doing to herself by possibly being off of her medication and taking her frustration and anger out on the rest of the family. Eventually she is going to really hurt someone in the family (if she hasn't already) and you may not be able to talk to her then due to these problems. I'd take the chance of talking to her now while it might be easier to get things back under control. But don't do it alone. Include at the very least your husband and your sister - at a minimum for reinforcements. Good luck!

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Daniel Ivey

I think a family meeting would be rather ideal because it would give family members and/or friends to discuss the current situation and find a solution or simply how to ameliorate the situation itself. Good luck!

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I think that you should talk to her and see what's going on.

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se batson

You need to ask your mother for an explanation and get to the bottom of this. If she says she never said anything there's not much to be done about it other than putting a voice activated recorder somewhere the next time around to find out who is telling the truth.