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my parents wont leave me the hell alone on weekends they friken always give me shit. im not a bad kid i get b's and a's im involved in excercising my mom nags and bugs the hell out of me i cant friken say wut i want to say if i try my mom would either slap me or yell at me and then my dumb ass dad who never finished college comes in and friken yells in my face and this has happened every damn weekend. i try to stay the hell away from them by playin xbox 360. that no longer works because they worry toomuch now cuz all i play is shooter games like call of duty four and rainbow six vegas two. they think im going to be like that kid @vt that killd evry1. those 2 idiots are the dumbest people ever. im 15 so i cant tell them to fuck off yet. Help! |
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You may think that your parents are bothersome and irritating, however, your parent may simply be looking out for you in addition to ensuring that you are safe. Evidently, some parents watch over their children's shoulders so that they would rarely attempt anything that they may regret in the future. There are many people that are angry at their parents for looking over them but you should look outside your box and think of why they do it. What exactly are the reasons? Do you honestly believe they are doing it to annoy you or to make your life miserable? Most likely, it is because they truly care for you and wouldn't want anything horrible to occur pertaining to you. What do you think?
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What exactly do they do when you have friends around? How do they embarrass you? After you tell them to go away, what do they do?
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First, I would really appreaciate it if you could keep swear words down to a minimum. We are all adults here, or would like to think we are. But there are other words out there that you can use to express your frustration.
You are 15. This isn't an insult, but at that age you don't know what is best for you. What are your parents bothering you about? And what are you getting yelled at over? |
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If you talk to your parents in a way that belittles them and makes them feel like you believe you on on the same "level" as them, it only encourages them to push you down harder and further. Try to give them more respect, they might return it. If you treat them like they're older and wiser than you- if you treat them like they're your parents, not your jailors- they'll worry less, because they know you take their cautionary advice seriously. You can't change them, you can only change yourself and hope for a more harmonious exchange. Good luck.
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Well, how exactly are communicating with them? My advice is try not to be too flippant with them. Yes, that may be hard to do but if you want to reason with people, you've gotta keep your cool. What I do is sit down, write out my arguments, and then read it out to them(or memorize them beforehand). 'Course it won't work if you've got the type of parents who will not listen to you no matter how you present yourself. Those can be a rotten pain and so be it, you may go against their wishes, but that's ill-advised according to whatever standards society has set up, so expect consequences if you take that road. Use your brain instead of your emotions in this case and see how it all turns out.
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