I got ran off the road in to a poll at 45mph and destroyed my mom truck and no she has no way to get to work no bank to give us a loan my mom just doesn't even care that I got in a car crash only now she doesnt have a car everyone yelled at me I feel like my friends love me more then my mom and family does

Did she specifically give you permission to drive her truck? At this particular moment in time, they are angry at you simply because you crashed the car, therefore, your mom cannot drive herself to work with that car. You will also have to think about the increase on her insurance, the car repair bills, your mother having to take other transportation to work such as the bus, or having to purchase a new car. They are yelling at you because you did something irresponsible, regardless of it being a mistake. People make mistakes so don't feel too bad, nonetheless, they are upset because of the car crash.

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What if you were to crash your friend's car? Would they not be angry at you? If that happened, it may be a possibility that they might be extremely upset and yell at you for crashing their car. You may feel that your friends love you a lot more at this moment, however, that is only because you have not crashed their cars so you do not necessarily know how they would react.

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Even though its an accident it doesn't change that things are going to be hard for a while. It sounds like she is just stressed out. Are you ok though? Did you get hurt at all?

The reason I say they hate me now is my mom kicked me out of the house and told me she hates me and never wants to see me again my brother told me he hates my guts now my grampa told me he wished that car crash would of killed me so I couldnt harm this family anymore so idk I Just feel like im unwanted every where I go

Well, you can't do anything except try find a nice apartment to live in or something

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it sounds like there is a lot of anger and emotion right now, which will pass over time. the best thing you can do is be supportive and do your best not to escalate the situation any further. Time always softens the anger.

Start looking at things you could cut to raise money for a car payment. For example cancel the internet and cable and save $100 a month that could go to a car. Stop going out 1 time a week and save another $100 a month that could go to a car payment. Now have $200 towards car, and so on.

If the truck is damaged, there is no hiding it. You need a REALLY good lie!!
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