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Old 02-17-2008, 10:37 AM
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There s i s this girl who i see only on week ends shs actually my dance trainer .i try to crack jokes, and i am trying to make sure to cope up with class for the fact that she would know that i am a person who takes things seriously but i am not able to do that very much due to stressfull job and all,but she only talks to me professionally.plz suggest how do i let her knw that i am interstd in her.To make matters worse she's my trainer. ialmost lose my cool in front of her and go off track almost every time and start getting nervous. ive been going there for more than four months but i havent been able to show her she migt have gotten the hint i dont know . ive got to start with a clean slate every weeki am really going crazy and things are getting worse and all thos is effecting both my professional and personal life.....i know while in classes she has to maintain the distance and i do respect that ...i also recently came to know shes dating someone .. Plz help.

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Old 02-18-2008, 02:50 AM
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First of all - I have to say - that I don't think this looks too good for you.

1) - Its probably obvious to her (from what you have admitted yourself) that you have feelings for her, but she's keeping a very professional front on with you.

2) - She has started seeing someone else and so has feelings for someone else.

Are you willing to leave her class? If so, leave it and then tell her how you feel and ask if she would be interested in dating you - but don't press it any further.

How is it affecting your personal relationships?

Having strong chemistry with someone can be so difficult and so powerful and so incredibly distracting. But that doesnt mean that they are the one for you - even when it feels in your heart that they must be.

Goodluck..
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Old 02-29-2008, 08:12 AM
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Hi! again thanx for your reply... i see your point but the thing is if i leave her classes then i might lose the slightest chances that i have got of getting her attention...pls suggest something so she starts taking some intrst in me... atleast ill have some base before i ask her wat you told me to ....
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Old 03-02-2008, 04:33 AM
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Ok. Alright. Take a very attractive female friend with you next time and try to create some chemistry between you and the friend. That will get her (your instructor's) attention. Women are intrigued and attracted to men to whom other attractive women are attracted to.
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Old 03-03-2008, 11:30 AM
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ok thanx ..i hope this hlps.ill keep you posted thanks a lot!!
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Old 08-11-2008, 11:03 AM
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I think you can do it! Just believe in yourself! Besides, if you had that many experiences with animals and had swimming lessons, I'm sure you can do it!.
After all she is your dance trainer you will say frankly to her any thing which is in your heart.
Best Of Luck..........

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