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Old 04-24-2008, 10:45 AM
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Question how long is love supposed to last?

I've only been in love twice in my life. The first time we were together for a year, then off and on for the next three years, til we both realized it just wasn't there anymore.

This time the girl and I fell in love out of nowhere over the course of a few months, but it was really hard for us to be together because of the living distance between us at the time and some other stuff going on in life. We were unofficially a couple for a few months, but then she realized how much she actually loved me and got terrified. She told me she wasn't ready for that kind of love at this point in her life, that if we were to be together we'd be together for years and she's not ready for a long term relationship. We both decided that it would be too hard for us to remain friends at that point considering how much we loved one another, so we cut each other out of our lives COMPLETELY (this was about two months ago now).

She's been dating a guy for most of that time and I've been with a girl who I more or less am just physically attracted to and don't feel much more beyond that for for most of that time since.

I saw her and her new boyfriend walking down the street today and I was in a really big hurry and on my mobile so I just gave her a quick wave and had to rush off, but I think she expected me to stop and talk from the way she looked after I just waved.

Anyway, seeing her made me realized that I am still completely in love with her, despite not having seen or spoken to her for the better part of two months, and her having started seeing another guy. Is it weird to still be in love with her??
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Old 04-28-2008, 06:12 AM
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Ya its really weird but now you don't have any other option.
but oh well life goes on right?
and we'll find someone new????
sometimes thats just to hard to believe...
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Old 07-17-2008, 12:48 AM
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Well….I think if you wait for some more time… you can get a lot better suggestions that this…I am out of any ideas for this!!!!
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Old 07-26-2008, 06:14 PM
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If you actually love her it will never go away, thats not just from saying either. If you moved to opposite sides of the world, u wud stil think i loved that girl, i stil care bout her and nothin wud change apart from u just might love someone else also.

If you actually love her i think uve made the wrong thread title, it doesnt matter if its weired or not that u stil love her. Youve lost her for 2 months, given that whats the harm in telling her how u felt when u seen her.. how do u know she never felt the same.. how do u know she wasnt wishing u stopped 2 talk 2 her.. ?

Give it a try, because u may not find love again, its hard 2 come by.
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Old 07-28-2008, 11:12 AM
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Thanks, for the amazing information, nice job!
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Old 08-01-2008, 09:48 AM
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Default RE: how long is love supposed to last?

Hi
You are not clear with your thoughts, will you give more information. So I can help you out in this matter.
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Old 08-05-2008, 07:28 AM
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thanks for the information.
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Old 08-16-2008, 10:46 AM
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pretty much...i figure if you can last long enough for the girl to orgasm first (or even better the two of you orgasm together) then that's enough. If ya can last hours why worry, more orgasms for the girl to enjoy methinkies!
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Old 08-19-2008, 08:38 PM
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You shouldn't cut your relationship with her, long distance relationship
works too.
It depends on how you handle it, long distance relationships test you inside out and upside down!.
Well I guess she loves you more than his new boyfriend now....
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