ive been with josh for almost 4 years.
He gets drunk sometimes... and treats me like a dog.

He has been doing really well in the last couple of months, he hasnt drank and we've been getting along great. Even talking about marriage.

Then, tonight, on my birthday, he drinks. (We are in a long distance relationship by the way). So anyways, we fight. He puts me down all the time when he is drunk. He says things that dont make sense, he tells me he's fine with or without me. And he also tells me to quit wasting his time and never to call him again.

I dont know what it is that makes him act that way. And everytime he calls me the next day when he is sober and apologizes... and Im always supposed to forgive him. Frankly, Im getting tired of it. I love him with all my heart, but i cant put up with his drinking anymore.

someone tell me what to do?

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Black Dating

Yes, I am understanding your problem by heart. I think you have to give one more chance to him. And see his behavior after this act.

Best of Luck

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RelationshipAtoZ

You should confront him, tell the things what he did when he gets drunk.
Talk to a psychiatrist ask for guidance, maybe because at the end you have a problem too and your husband can't tell that's why, he gets drunk in order to express everything what he feels.

I'm so sorry i know that's hard.Is he a nice drunk cuz i would worry about yew getting in a fight with him and him hurt you. now i don't know a lot about drunks but please dont let him hurt you also when he is sober try talking to him and no you are not over acting that's normal to be concerned. good luck with him let me knows how it goes.

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RelationshipAtoZ

There is a quote that says "Drunk words are sober thoughts". You need to have a serious talk with him and find out if this is how he really feels, dont let him hold anything abck from you.