Hello, all. I am experiencing a minor problem... not huge, just something that bothers me a bit.

I cheated on my ex fiance (of 5 years) with my now husband for over a year. That was over 4 years ago. My now husband knew about it but I kept it a secret from my then fiance, obviously. Well, my husband won me over and after that year, I drove a few hours and dumped my fiance without much explanation (which I know he deserved) and married the other guy I had been seeing. We are VERY happy together! As a matter of fact, I think we have the best relationship of anyone I know.

The other night I was chatting online with a guy friend from a long time ago out in Colorado. I am in Virginia and my husband asked who I was talking to like he was suspicious. Then he said "are you looking for a replacement like you did with me on (insert ex fiance's name here). I thought he was joking but he looked sad. I was crushed. He probably brings up my cheating about once/mo on average. Will this follow me forever?

I love him with all my heart. We have been married for over 3 faithful years. We have a terrific relationship. He loves me so much too and it shows. In addition to his actions, he follows me and my ambitions around even moving many miles away so I can attend dental school because he knows it will provide a sound future for us and our future family.

Jealousy leads to insecurity, tell your husband that its on the past. Past is past you have committed a mistake and it wont happen again.
If i where you, if ever your going to send some emails let him emailed it for so that there will be no arguments and secrets. Let him meet your friends, have some group dates get along with your friends friends.

Thanks for your advice on the matter