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Depends on his or her personality.
If he is the type of person whom you can sit down and talk to rationally, then tell him directly that it's not working. That the feeling you'd had once for that person is no longer there. If he is that type who can't seem to take "NO" for an answer Use reverse psychology, show the worst side of your personality to turn him off. Ever watched that movie "How to loose a guy in 10 days?" Quiet very effective. ![]() |
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I guess, you're right..
it depend son the personality of both parties... but I guess, sometimes it's hard doing it... much more if the other is, not that sport in that stuff.. and there are times that it's easy, as long as the other party sees the reason why they have to end up.. nut in general, I find it hard.. ________________ dress up games | celebrity games | fashion games |
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It's easy to give your perception on other people's problem on how you'd do it if your in their place but on actually doing it when your the one experiencing a break up, it is hard. We could even hardly see what went wrong in our relationship because we're blinded by what we feel.
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Actually, I am referring to my status right now,..I am married and
I really wanted to end up my relationship, with of course my husband.. we're both 24 years old..and I guess, he is still an immature person, who aren't ready to give up his barkada. And I find it hard to manage him.. and at the same time find it hard to talk to him, calmy..for he's a bit, high tempered.. |
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Actually, I don't want to end a relationship because I'm a guy and I respect ladies. But my friends told me that the easiest way to break up with her is to simply change your attitude and treatment towards her, for sure she will definitely wonder and ask you "what's going on?".
Then you can tell her the reason. If she is nagger type and doesn't accept "no" for an answer, just explain your side, say sorry, tell her that "It is much better if we are friends", and then leave(if you feel she is switching into "nagger mode". It's not that rude, at least you explained and say your sorry. Breaking up with someone is not always easy but you have to do it to be fair for her and for yourself, it usually needs courage and timing to do it. Just think of saving someone / yourself so that you will have the courage you need.![]() Read and think of this so that you will not be worrying about her after you told her that you want to break up. This is by Kubbler Ross: Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance See! She'll be just fine. It's normal to deny, to be angry, bargain and depress because eventually she'll just accept the fact and learn to move on with her life.
Last edited by lovelust; 08-07-2009 at 03:36 AM. Reason: content problems. |
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Are you referring to me..?
Sorry to question you with that.. As for additional info.. I am a female.. And it seems that you have addressed me, wrong.. And thanks for that reply..Actually now, we're separating homes..but he is still sleeping with me.. And i just wonder why, there are guys, who can't admit to themselves, and even can't accept the fact that they lost.. Why is he still keep coming back to me, despite of the fact hat he had caused me too much pain and hurt already.. We had a big fight, before we separate homes, I can still remember, he punched on my stomach, slap me, and then even hit me on my butt and choking me..but then he stopped.. I wasn't a nagger.. Just wanted to explain to him, why I wanted to break up with him.. But he can't accept it..that's why he beats me, and keeps on accussing me that I've had someone else.. ________________ sorry for this link anyway.. baby games | makeover games online |
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