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Old 07-28-2009, 07:11 AM
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Wink How To End A Relationship Wisely?

Hi, Have you ever think how to end a relationship because of some troubles?

Most of people want to end their relationship because of high pressure and emotion, and then they will realize and feel sorry for that.

Any suggestions or experiences How To End A Relationship Wisely? Let us share here
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Old 07-29-2009, 12:27 AM
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Depends on his or her personality.

If he is the type of person whom you can sit down and talk to rationally,
then tell him directly that it's not working. That the feeling you'd had once for that person is no longer there.

If he is that type who can't seem to take "NO" for an answer
Use reverse psychology, show the worst side of your personality to turn him off. Ever watched that movie "How to loose a guy in 10 days?" Quiet very effective.


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Old 07-30-2009, 10:00 PM
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Default Ending up a relationship wisely...

I guess, you're right..
it depend son the personality of both parties...
but I guess, sometimes it's hard doing it...
much more if the other is, not that sport in that stuff..

and there are times that it's easy, as long as the other
party sees the reason why they have to end up..

nut in general, I find it hard..


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Old 07-31-2009, 01:26 AM
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It's easy to give your perception on other people's problem on how you'd do it if your in their place but on actually doing it when your the one experiencing a break up, it is hard. We could even hardly see what went wrong in our relationship because we're blinded by what we feel.
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Old 07-31-2009, 01:37 AM
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Default hi there...

Actually, I am referring to my status right now,..I am married and
I really wanted to end up my relationship, with of course my
husband.. we're both 24 years old..and I guess, he is still an
immature person, who aren't ready to give up his barkada.

And I find it hard to manage him.. and at the same time find it hard to
talk to him, calmy..for he's a bit, high tempered..
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Old 08-07-2009, 03:27 AM
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Exclamation seperation alsways hurt...Here's how to lessen the pain.

Actually, I don't want to end a relationship because I'm a guy and I respect ladies. But my friends told me that the easiest way to break up with her is to simply change your attitude and treatment towards her, for sure she will definitely wonder and ask you "what's going on?". Then you can tell her the reason.
If she is nagger type and doesn't accept "no" for an answer, just explain your side, say sorry, tell her that "It is much better if we are friends", and then leave(if you feel she is switching into "nagger mode". It's not that rude, at least you explained and say your sorry. Breaking up with someone is not always easy but you have to do it to be fair for her and for yourself, it usually needs courage and timing to do it. Just think of saving someone / yourself so that you will have the courage you need.


Read and think of this so that you will not be worrying about her after you told her that you want to break up.
This is by Kubbler Ross:
Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance

See! She'll be just fine. It's normal to deny, to be angry, bargain and depress because eventually she'll just accept the fact and learn to move on with her life.

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Old 08-07-2009, 03:43 AM
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Default hi there, Lovelust...

Are you referring to me..?
Sorry to question you with that..

As for additional info.. I am a female..
And it seems that you have addressed me, wrong..

And thanks for that reply..Actually now, we're
separating homes..but he is still sleeping with me..
And i just wonder why, there are guys, who can't admit
to themselves, and even can't accept the fact that
they lost..

Why is he still keep coming back to me, despite of the
fact hat he had caused me too much pain and hurt already..

We had a big fight, before we separate homes, I can still remember,
he punched on my stomach, slap me, and then even hit me on
my butt and choking me..but then he stopped.. I wasn't a nagger..

Just wanted to explain to him, why I wanted to break up with him..
But he can't accept it..that's why he beats me, and keeps on
accussing me that I've had someone else..


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