Crush on girl at work, HELP!
Hi, I have recently started to develop the beginnings of a crush, or what I think is a crush, for one of the girls I work with. She is currently in a relationship. I have had several crushes on girls before and they were not very nice experiences, personally. Some lasted for a few years and some lasted several weeks and eveything in between. This time I am actually trying to stop my crush developing because I dont want to go through this again but am failing miserably. I have always kept my feelings secret and have kept them bottled up for the duration of a crush. I feel like I want to discuss my crush with a friend/s at work this time. This could be disastarous i know but i dont know whether bottling up my feelings is worse for me emotionally and mentally. If my crush finds out then the atmosphere at work would be very tense. I just dont know what to do?. Should i listen to my feelings and follow them?
Thanks for any suggestions.
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