I would like objective opinions on this, as it has become a big problem for my fiance and I lately and I don't know what to do about it.

Due to our lovely economy, my fiance's work hours have been cut down to part-time. Instead of finding another part-time job, he wants to take part in a medical study where they test drugs on you for money. The drugs are FDA approved, it's been warranted safe, etc. However, because I am marrying this man and we plan to have children someday, I am not comfortable with him doing this. I just don't like the unknown aspect of this--proven safe or not, they are still testing drugs on him. He thinks I am being ridiculous, because the statistics have shown it's safe.

So now we have a problem. If he goes and does this study (he has to stay there overnight for a few days so they can monitor his body) I don't feel like he's taking my feelings seriously. If he doesn't go, I'm not valuing his judgement and personal freedom. I told him because we're in a relationship, it's not just him anymore, and he should consider both of our feelings on the issue. I just don't see a solution to this. Damned if he does go, damned if he doesn't. I think there are other solutions out there besides drug testing to make extra money. I wish he would pick one of those instead of going to this extreme.

Feelings is different from personal freedom.
it just because you want freedom that your feelings got pressurized and you can't scape from it.

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