There are five things I believe make a relationship work and I also live them. Now
will these work for every relationship? I believe they will. People have their own
set of rules but I do believe that there are basic guidelines to a relationship.
What you decide to add to those will be on you as the individual. These are
God, if he is your thing.Communication, Appreciation, Security, Great Sex. For
further information on these. Feel free to respond and ask me questions. I will
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I would like some advice , I've been single now for about 5 months after being together for 18 yrs.
Iv'e been seeing someone (tim), at first it was great and full of butterflies, then his ex came back in picture, she has a boyfriend that lives far away . And the butterflies had to be put on hold , because tim wanted her back , he has hardend , it's been a year that they have been going back and forth , she cooks for him sends food over , tim lives with his dad , helps take care of him , as he is 90. in between tim has taking me out for meals , i have key to his house , in the past few months he had bought me gifts that tally to about 600$ , last night he told me he told his ex he no longer wants to see her or have anything to do with her , her boyfriend was down for a week , think he has gone back home now , last night tim and i were on the phone talking , today he want's nothing to do with me , a few weeks ago he said how wonderful i am and great looks and how he is crazy for not totally jumping for me because of his ex . treats me like gold, ex don't know about me , he tells me everything about when he sees her , stays honest with me . his family really likes me . i have been a dating site and he is always asking me about the men ive met , does it bother him ? he teases me , but never says to stop the site . I would love nothing more than to be with him .

WOW! Well I have read what you wrote, and this is what I gathered from it. First problem, his ex was allowed back in the picture. Second he actually spent TIME with her! Also they were back and forth for about a year! He said the ex never knew about you! What the hell?! What do you mean to him? If a man is commited, you should have been the first thing his ex should have known about. It would have been ok to speak to her, and introduce you in the process. If not meet her with you two being together. So that there would be NO suspicions for you, and letting her KNOW that he is taken. So my question to you is? Where and what were you doing during this time these two were on and off? One of the biggest problems I have with men is this. They cannot take what they dish out! If you have had and ex come back in town. You spent time with him. Your man would LOSE HIS MIND! Strange to me that he all of a sudden he wanted to come back to you, once her man was in town. He was probably done "having fun" and now wants to come back to you. Also him saying he wants nothing to do with her after her man left. Buying gifts sometimes, may be a cover up for something the he may have done wrong. Don't quote that, but it is common. Did he tell you exactly why he does not want to be with you anymore?? One more question. 18 years is a long time. 5 months later someone else is in the picture. Do you think that you gave yourself enough recovery time?? One last thing, if a man leaves, he probably was not the one for you. I know sometimes that is hard to hear. Especially if you really like a person. But it is, what it is. I think that due to the fact of your 18 year and 5 month time. You need to just take some time for you. Give yourself some time to properly recover. So the next time you go into a relationship. There will be a clean start. Because for something to happen so quickly after being with someone for that long, could do some damage. My heart goes out to you. I hope I have help ease any stress you were having, and feel free to talk to me anytime. Take care.

Thanks for getting back to me , I have been seeing him through it all , just not on weekends or if her boyfriend is in town . It's not all about sex . but yes i do understand what you are saying .
He was always wanting her back , he says now he has hardend towards her.

So, are YOU ok with how things are going? Also, talk is cheap. People are what they do, not what they say. Plus you can't read his mind. But I truly hope that he is a man of his words. Simply because, life is short. If he wants to play games. Tell him to get a playstation 3. Take care.

If going into the past was as easy as taking a step backward, we would never move forward.
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well finally the fireworks hit , he no longer sees her . The boyfriend found out , and the guy i like told him everything , for her she changed her phone numbers .
now i see him more , and i want more but he says he still thinks of her and not ready , i told him i was goin to meet a guy on a date site and he said well i guess i better get moving to find someone to spend my time with then , i said oh really so thats what you think of me , he tryed to talk himself out of that one .