Need Perspective Input Please
Can't figure this out. I really like this man but he has got me so confused. He has been in a live in relationship for awhile. He flirts with me all the time. Which I took as harmless and just having fun. Until it was pointed out to me that he is giving other guys the impression that we have something going and discourages them from asking me out. I joke and tell him he has two many women and there's no room for me. His gf took a trip out of state and he tells me she is not coming back and they are over and he wants to come home with me. Which I didn't take him home with me, thank god. She wasn't gone permenently and came back a week later. He doesn't ask me out, he just keeps sayin things like lets go in the car and neck. In general to anyone that didn't know better it could look like there is something going on. Now his gf has moved into her own place. He tells me they are over other people tell me they are still together, just not living together. He's still hitting on me but never asks me out. For that matter he never asks me to do anything but keeps offering to have sex with me. Don't get me wrong, I would love to have sex with him but I need a relationship to go with. He wants to have sex with me but doesn't want anyone to know about it. Guys, I know I am being slow, right. This isn't going to lead to anything good except maybe good sex every once in awhile, right. Others comment on how he can't keep himself away from me, so this isn't just one sided. Spell this out for me I need to hear it. Forgot to mention this has been going on for a least a year and half. We see each other weekly through our hobby.
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