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Old 03-09-2010, 10:30 AM
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I am sorry to read about ur relation. i wish i could do something...I hope things are better now..Pls tell otherwise i will pray to god for you and your girl to be together forever
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Old 03-16-2010, 06:58 AM
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Husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it .. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.
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Old 04-13-2010, 07:36 PM
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That Love is all there is,
Is all we know of Love.
Love is not a matter of counting the years...
But making the years count.
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Old 06-23-2010, 11:38 PM
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You pretty much committed two critical mistakes in your marriage. First is how you devoted much of your time on playing WoW, which may have nailed the coffin in your marriage. Second, and this is the probably the most critical, is when you took the ring from her. But I'm sure you know this so let's just get to the bottom of this, shall we?

An advice that you probably would be hearing the most is to drop cold turkey on gaming. Sell your computer and take up a new hobby that she could possibly enjoy, should you reconcile together.

At first, this may sound like the only advice that could help your marriage. However, keep in mind that when you're giving up your gaming consoles, you are pretty giving up what makes of you in the first place. Although there will be some changes to be made when you get married, it doesn't mean that you have to change the things that provides you your comfort zone.

I honestly don't see how you could come back together after what just happened. Partly, it may have been your fault, but let's face it - marriage is a partnership. If something goes wrong, it's the fault of both parties. You wife was not receptive of your hobbies and she doesn't seem to want to make this work long-term. You may love her, but you have to ask yourself, will she love you back the same way you do?

I think one thing you should learn is how you should be sensitive to your wife's needs. In a marriage, it's all about making your spouse happy and being there for her. Also, show her that you've improved and is more than willing to make this relationship work. It's up to you to make this happen.

If worse comes to worse and she does file for divorce, the best thing you could do is to be prepare. Here are some articles that deal with free divorce advice for men to minimize the damages you may receive from divorce.
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Old 06-28-2010, 05:44 AM
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My married also has end and is not my choice. What I know about pain is...we actually stay stuck in that pain, sometimes forever. Some time even when I think that I have dealt with the pain and put my past relationship behind me, there;s still more healing work to be done. Sometime, I’ll hear a song on radio or one night pop into my head that reminds me of certain time and person that I were with. Other times, someone will say or do something that reminds me of a past relationship and I realize that even though days, weeks, months or even years may have passed, there’s still more healing to be done. Nearly everyone I’ve talked to after divorce has said that most important factor in the healing process is time. If time passing is the only thing that needs to happen in order for me to heal my pain and broken heart, the all we would I need to do is let a certain amount of time pass and poof-just like magic- my pain would be gone and our heart healed ?? Unfortunately, this isn't the way the healing process works. It isn't just the time that's important. It's what we do with that time that determines whether we heal out hearts or not. If this were the way it really was, it would be great. But the truth is that we all know people who've experienced a relationship break up or divorce and many months or years later, they are still angry, bitter and holding onto the pain of that past relationship.

If you ever hope to heal your heart and find the courage to truly open yourself up to love again, you're going to have to do some things besides simply letting time pass.


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